Fighting to Live
I want to live, really live. To be alive and enjoy the purposes I’ve been created for. To be a partner who doesn’t have to push through past hurts to … Continue reading
Purpose Pt. 2
First, blog I’ve missed you. I first thought about righting a new post repurposing this blog. But the original purpose is the same still, to have a space to use, … Continue reading
Perfection
Perfection is key. I’m sick and tired of perfection. The expectation that I will be perfect in everything I do. Breath perfection. Achieve perfection. Shit perfection. Dress perfection. Have perfect … Continue reading
Wounded
Wounded I’ve been wounded by racism Wounded by sexual objectivity Wounded by injustice Wounded by homophobia Wounded by white peoples “unconscious biases” Wounded by the silence of moderate “liberal white … Continue reading
Black Women Do Not Exist To Save You
WriteSomeShit In a narrow win, Doug Jones has won the Senate race in Alabama. And by narrow, I mean less than 50,000 votes. So, before any of us break our … Continue reading
Happy Birthday to You KT
Today is America’s and one of my special best friends birthday!! One of the main purposes of this blog is to grow in sharing my voice. So the letter below … Continue reading
Finding the Place of Freedom
In Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) there is this idea called dialectics. It is based on the idea that two trusts can exist at one time. And that is where … Continue reading
Fighting
I be fighting…. allll the time… for years, since childhood. … Like knock down drag out, bloody fighting with life stressors, oppressive people, and marginalized systems. I be fighting with … Continue reading
I Find Myself Living Life
I find myself: Listening to God in the silence of my mind Slipping fast into the sea of my emotions Traveling along the minute hand of logic Drowning in the … Continue reading
Falling Down
Sometimes I can’t help but to feel as though the world is falling apart and falling down. Falling down because it feels like black lives are like stocks, stocks that … Continue reading
Origins of Sexual Self
Then as a child I was aspiring to be legal Then your sexual adventures in me would be okay Now I’m aspiring to rewrite innocence Now seeing sex with you … Continue reading
Finding Beauty in Life
When Life feels most challenging I focus on Love. This is my list of loving my way through living.
Room in my home
I’m back home! Coming back to my blog feels like coming back to one of my favorite rooms in my home! One that I’ve missed dearly and amazed at how … Continue reading
3 Facts to Help You Finish Your PhD
Originally posted on universityoflies:
“Yeah, I’m finishing my PhD this summer,” I said, smiling brightly to signify that this is a fact, something that will actually happen due to gravity…
Music Adventure 1
Music has always been a life line to me A connection from who I am to who I want to be A conversation between my heart & my imagination A … Continue reading
Sexual Self: Working Words
Anticipation Nice & Tasty Juicy Moist Ready? Deep Deeper Faster … Continue reading
Today: Love Song to Life
Today I am happy to be alive To recognize the beauty of living To be emerged in the process of living To have floated into the depth of humanity To … Continue reading
My Elastic Heart
Thank you Sia for speaking a magical language to my heart. For creating a work of art that joins your experience with my experience. Thank you for reminding me of … Continue reading
The Magic of Emotional Regulation
Emotion regulation is the process through which an individual filters their emotions in order to control how they feel and, consequently, communicate these feelings. http://www.psychwiki.com/wiki/Emotion_Regulation About 5 minutes ago I … Continue reading
I See in Color
I see the world in color. Speak a language called humanity and cry tears of mercy. This picture greatly speaks to me. A reminder of the work that still needs … Continue reading
#Truth
I’m going to say them… I’m going to say the things I have been avoiding… I’m going to write them right here and right now… I am afraid of being … Continue reading
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